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Pixellator: Mrs. Pix Earns Her Stripes

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WARNING: This video is not for everyone. Though it is definitely sexual in nature, its focus is on a limited exercise of “caning”, an activity squarely within the world of BDSM – it is not excessive (from a BDSM view), but neither is it for the squeamish, as they say. To be clear, nothing depicted here is coerced and certainly nothing is remotely related to any kind of punishment; everything you will see is consensual and was planned out together with Mrs. Pix to achieve certain effects … effects that are better seen (and heard) than explained.

Authentic impact play is as much mental as physical, and Mrs. Pix requires some warm up to “get into the zone”. Our two prior videos “Mrs. Pix Gets Spanked” and “Mrs. Pix Gets Spanked II” were, in fact, excerpts from the warm up through which Mrs. Pix approached this planned episode, which possibly adds some perspective to their structure and sequence. If you have not seen those videos, you might want to view those first; this video begins with some color in her cheeks still remaining from the prior spanking. As a group, the three videos form an almost real-time sequence.

As noted, there was an objective here to capture specific technical (and in our view, artistic) effects. To fully appreciate those effects, we urge you to watch continuously from beginning to end, using full screen and full audio.

In fact, the audio here is very important; it is very limited, but critical for full effect. Whether listening through head phones or external speakers, we urge you to listen at MAXimum volume … you will not be blown out (even with ear buds) and even at maximum volume you will need to listen carefully to catch some of the subtlety buried in the quiet.

Some viewers will not “get it” – that’s ok. Mrs. Pix and I are very pleased with the result and are happy to share it with you.

Enjoy.

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flag as inappropriate Sunishegal    Feb. 16, 2019

Mmm interesting, this looks kinda fun. I’ve been curious about doing this myself for a while, getting spammed/caned. I don’t know if I’d be able to keep quiet like her, she shows a lot of control.

flag as inappropriate 946    Aug. 10, 2016

I'm very curious about all of this.

 Pixellator    Aug. 10, 2016
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Definitely not for everyone ...

flag as inappropriate 946    Aug. 10, 2016

Id love to learn the intricacies.

 Pixellator    Aug. 10, 2016
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Well ... good luck with that. Not too likely to happen in a comments section. :-)

flag as inappropriate rahul dev    April 28, 2016
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it must be a little painful for Mrs Pix... but she would have liked it when she had seen the video and the red marks on her lovely bum...
u guys r really exploring ur life and enjoying..

 Pixellator    April 28, 2016
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Yes, it is a little painful. And indeed, she is very pleased with the result ... she thinks the video is awesome.

flag as inappropriate Freelance+10    April 17, 2016
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It's interesting to see a different aspect of a loving couple explore something out of the norm... the fact you two have great understanding and trust is really commendable... without it, To explore a taste of lifestyle or sexual practice would be not in a loving sense, at least for me it would not... it is interesting as I've seen you comment Pix the slowed down impact of the cane and the way the body reacts... Is it a sexual state Mrs Pix feels when playing this way or is it something else... does it excite her playing like this when you do, and as you play does her sexual excitement rise because of what's happening... I have to say, seeing the impact and then the welts make me cringe and rub my own ass in sympathy... it's also amazing how as adults, many have made and enjoy this practice immensely, but as school children have avoided at all costs when the punishment was a canning, when that punishment was quite common.

 Pixellator    April 17, 2016
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Thank you for your thoughtful remarks.

Mrs. Pix and I love each other and have lived a loving, blended life for many years. The depth and breadth of that love does not necessarily leap out in full expression in each and every gesture and act of our lives – for example – a few strokes of a cane as seen in this video do not speak to those things in any obvious way, and in isolation can easily be construed as something quite the opposite – depending on the predisposition of the beholder.

No, her experience from the actual sensation of the strikes here was not at all sexual in itself. There are those who do derive pleasure from pain (algolagnia) – something neither of us understands and is definitely not involved here. For us (both of us) the sexuality is in the total experience, most of which does not fit in a few seconds of video. Imagine a theatre play (Shakespeare, whoever) … certainly there are numerous of characters, subplots, scenes, and moments, even memorable quotes that become cultural bon mots, but in the end it is the totality of the drama with all its entanglement that makes the play what it is.

When we play out a full “scene”, taking place, say, over the course of an evening, that will often include different elements that weave together as one extended episode of foreplay. The adventurism expressed through a bit of exotica as perhaps seen here, if it happens, is something that happens within the ebb and flow of that extended experience and is far from isolated. Indeed, for us, almost any “date” is played as an extended bout of foreplay, played out wherever we are or in whatever company – not just for a few minutes before copulation in the bedroom.

As for the “welts” you noted … that almost qualifies as illusion. Everything is real, which makes the visuals genuinely impressive, but the actual effects stop short of what the eye seems to believe. Though there was definitely surprise and sting involved, that was almost instantaneous to each strike – and gone. There was no injury, and even the visuals lasted only long enough to capture some interesting pictures before fading into unremarkability. This being the first time either of us had tried this sort of thing, the benigness of whole episode was more than a little surprising and emboldened both of us to a greater openness to such experimentation. It is still a rarity, but no longer something shied away from.

flag as inappropriate BaggerB    April 15, 2016

Very nicely done, & I'm glad that you both get off on it. Kudos to Mrs. Pix for not making a peep, fun & games yes, but it still smarts. Thanks for sharing your interesting lives.

 Pixellator    April 15, 2016
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Thank you. The mental aspect of this is invisible, but essential, and not easily communicated.

flag as inappropriate observer    April 14, 2016
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glad it was fun for both of you :)

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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It was ... thank you.

flag as inappropriate observer    April 15, 2016
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was this, spanking, an accidental discovery between you two? either or both of you engaged in this prior to this relationship and then trained, brought the other into enjoying together. share if you are comfortable :)

 Pixellator    April 15, 2016
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I'm comfortable enough sharing such things, I'm just not sure how successful I can be in a few comments.

But to give it a shot, the backstory is that we have been around the edges of BDSM for years through a diverse range of contexts from defined open events like "Leatherfest" down to private play with just another couple. We have not been engaged in BDSM as a lifestyle or even as a central element of our sex play, but as something done "once in a while". Impact play, which is really the hot point here, has not been much of a part of that except as part of the overall mood. Until the video you see here (literally) that had never included caning, nor even spanking, per se - in these videos, you are seeing the first. Before this experiment, our impact play had been limited to fairly soft floggers.

Fairly recently (months, not years) we started making occasional visits to a BDSM "playspace" in our area. As Mrs. Pix observed others involved in impact play, her curiosity about it grew, as did her realization that there was a mental aspect to it that she had not yet understood. In that context, we experimented a bit more pointedly with it and she sought to get her "head" into it as she observed some others seemed to be able to do. Much to her credit, she did seem to experience a little personal discovery and came to sustain a surprising (to that time) degree of treatment. People experience such things in different ways, but she describes her experience as achieving some "mental separation". The separation helps her to sustain the effects of the impacts, and the impacts help keep in that state of separation. In the end - as never in our prior experience - she now comes away from a session of impact play as "coming down" from an experience as much mental as physical.

It was such discovery that led to the video you see here. Out of pure photographic interest, I had long wanted to capture the rebounding of flesh immediately following an impact. I had seen such pics from time to time and thought it would be a cool thing to try. That interest had never been a real possibility until recently, when it seemed that Mrs. Pix was game to try it. So what you are seeing is the fruition of that long-term photographic aim in what is actually her first experience ever feeling the impact of a cane.

Since that time she has tasted the cane a bit more, but it is a very occasional thing reserved for moments when its particular qualities have a place. That may be in the context of a "scene" playing out at an event, or maybe for particular photographic purposes as shown here. Or maybe both.

flag as inappropriate observer    April 16, 2016
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Thanks for sharing your story. Wonderful that you both walked into the experience together, continue to enjoy at home. Years ago, someone left a book "Sir John Q Letters" in the airplane seat. After a few years I left the book the same way for someone else to follow. There are no pictures or videos of the in between, but share the stories if there's interest

flag as inappropriate nipandslit    April 14, 2016VResident

Thanks for sharing. Not our thing, but consensual and no damage is good. We love to play along with many vids, that's our play time, but not this one. Love all your posts, and still go back to that reach-around bj.

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Can't fault your taste. There will be more to your liking upcoming. :-)

flag as inappropriate Dave    April 14, 2016

This is what it is all about, she enjoy getting warm up in this way and it is not just a hard spanking for your enjoyment. I should be fun for the both of you. I would not like to make marks that are black/blue or cut the skin but only red for a day or two. It about having fun together for your own enjoyment and we are all different and enjoy different things. I love the rosebud butt-plug up her sweet ass hole. I would love to spank her butt by hand or lightly with a belt that would turn me on. I have spank my wife butt and got a nice hard-on but my wife does not like to get spank. Thanks for sharing the nice video with us and I save it too. I had your nice butt as my computer wallpaper, that was fucking hot, thanks.

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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She is not a masochist and I am not a sadist. When we play this way, it is play, for a bit of drama and effect. She does not get off on pain or degradation, and I don't get off on punishment or abuse. But we have discovered that there is a grey zone beyond the playful, bare-handed spank where there are experiences interesting for us both to share.

flag as inappropriate Dave    April 15, 2016

Yes Yes Yes, I do agree with you, it should fun, something a little different a little kinky on the gray side of things. That caning had to hurt some.

flag as inappropriate Robbie    April 14, 2016
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I understand the relationship between a submissive and the owner but how is it related to the sexual experience? Or is it one of those things you have to of been there??

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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First, though she is submissive in this kind of play, even in that context neither of us would think of her as being owned. Some play that way, we don't. (If we go to a BDSM club, she'll wear a collar, but that's more about style and evening wear than substance.) She is my friend, partner, and lover and this is just happens to be one of the colors in our palette.

As the sexual aspect goes, I'm not sure that I can help you much there. In my experience, "explaining" such things decreases rather than increases their sexual potency - kind of like explaining a joke - explaining a joke doesn't make it more funny. But at least I'll note that this vid (and its two warm ups) is focused on the corporal aspects leading to the specific effects shown. In that respect, they are perhaps a bit clinical (though "Spanking II" is a bit more sexually indulgent). But the effects we sought to achieve here would have been diluted in their impact if we had intermingled more conventionally sexual diversions.

flag as inappropriate Beau    April 14, 2016
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Mmmmm.

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Hmmmm.

flag as inappropriate Beau    April 14, 2016
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thanks for sharing the vid. it was exciting to view.

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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You're welcome ... glad you like it.

flag as inappropriate drgng    April 14, 2016VResident

Nice butt jewel. Anal training?

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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I wouldn't call it training ... just fun.

flag as inappropriate Foto guy    April 14, 2016
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Why is it her that gets caned? I didn't see your ass getting all marked up.

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Your point? You want to see my ass? You want to see my ass get caned? No, of course not. I really don't mean to be facecious ... I get it that you don't get it or don't approve and that's fine.

But to comment on one matter implicit in your remark, I'll note that these marks are rather well calibrated and quite transitory.. Their color rises and peaks within a few minutes. They sustain near maximum "effect" for a few more minutes, then begin to fade. Within a half an hour they are barely discernable if not already gone, and by the end of an hour are completely gone without a trace.

In terms of photography, in order to "catch" impressive effects as in the still shot comprising the closer of this video(impressive to me, at least) it is necessary to be set up and prepared to "catch" them at the right time as they are so transitory.

flag as inappropriate Hank Pivnik    April 14, 2016

Very, very beautiful ass and legs!!

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Thank you!!

flag as inappropriate 946    April 14, 2016

Life is good

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Yes it is

flag as inappropriate justrite    April 14, 2016

That was cool!

 Pixellator    April 14, 2016
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Thank you ... we think so, too ...

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